I (we) spent a ridiculous amount of money on Christmas this weekend. Even typing those words makes me cringe. You see, I’m a tight ass with money…so spending it (even on items I know Allee and family will love) is sometimes hard for me. I know that the pay off will come when I see the delight in her face…but really, do we need to spend so much money?
I’m pondering how to set up a new tradition– one honoring the intent and not the all mighty product. I mean..I’m a realist and all–I know that we will buy STUFF for our children but I’d love to instill a sense of giving and generosity in them rather than a since of expectation. I’d also like to pare down what they get so that they actually appreciate the STUFF instead of always wanting more. I know that I’m the one that can control this. It’s just hard not to get caught up in the moment sometimes. Plus, I’m a lot like my mom. I love giving to people…seeing their delight give me a little thrill.
It would be awesome if I could convince my entire family to save the money and spend it on a nice family vacation–then we’d have time with each other and memories to last a lifetime. I wonder if I could sell them on it? HMMMM…
Of course, it’s easy for me to say this all right now after I’ve spent more money than some people make in a decade and purchased all the fun STUFF. But, maybe I’ll remember this for next year and try something new.
Posted by Christa Allan on December 24, 2008 at 4:35 am
I saw a picture today that made me so ashamed of my whining and spending. . .I promise not to show you, but I do encourage you to move in the direction your heart seems to be taking you.